No, I do not want to see a picture of your penis. Thank you.
Why? Just why…
I’ve had a guy send me a pic of his dick on Instagram. My initial reaction was “Ewwwww!”. Then I started to wonder what I’d said, or done, for him to do that. I didn’t know the guy. I’d never chatted to him before. It was just a picture out of the blue.
Then I had to tell myself that I’d done nothing to instigate it. He just assumed it was ok to send me that. When has it ever been ok to send that type of thing to somebody you do not know!? A person who had never asked for such a photo. I’m not the problem. My pics on Instagram are a little cheeky, because why the fuck not! That doesn’t give a man the right to send me a picture of his dick! Just like the way I dress doesn’t give anyone the right to touch me without my consent.
If you’re a guy reading this, and you’ve ever sent such a photo without being asked to, imagine you have a daughter who has this happen to her. Imagine how you’d feel knowing your daughter was made to feel disgusted by a man. A man like you. Imagine your wife/girlfriend has unsolicited pictures sent to her…
Don’t do it. Not only is the penis ugly, we just don’t care for that kinda shit!
x N x